If I were to ask, “What is the least attended meeting in the church?”, I’m sure that most of us would immediately identify the prayer meeting. If we were to ask again why that is so, there would be many reasons and excuses. However, I believe David Wells, in his article Prayer: Rebelling Against the Status Quo, states it best when he says that we don’t pray because “…we don’t believe prayer will make any difference.”
He adds that because we feel we are powerless to change anything, even through our prayers, we resign ourselves to the “status quo.” We accept the situation as it is, and we must learn to live with it. According to Wells, “This resignation to what is abnormal contains a hidden, unrecognized assumption that God’s power to change the world, to overcome Evil with Good, will not be actualized.” In other words, not only do we feel that our prayers are ineffective, but we even subconsciously believe that God isn’t going to do anything about it anyway.
How do we change this? I believe we need to develop a better understanding of what prayer is and our role in God’s plan. First, we need to understand that God is not an unwilling tyrant with whom we must plead and beg to take care of our needs. To illustrate this, Jesus spoke a parable about a widow who sought justice from a godless judge as recorded in Luke 18.
At first, the judge would not listen to her, but through her persistence, the judge finally relented and gave her the justice she desired. At the end of the parable, Jesus said, “And will not God give justice to his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them? I tell you, he will give justice to them speedily” (7-8 ESV). In this parable, Jesus says God is the total opposite of this godless and stingy judge. God wants to minister to those who cry out to Him and He will do so “speedily”—without hesitation. If that’s true, then why don’t we see our prayers answered? I think it is because we are not doing what the widow did. We are not praying with persistence.
One problem in the Western world today is that we have become used to instant gratification. Since the microwave, the internet, and a host of other inventions that provide quick service, we have a hard time waiting. Therefore, when we don’t see immediate results with our prayers, it is easy for us to give up and stop praying. You may have even been taught that we should only pray once for a need, then just praise God for the answer and confess that you have received it. And, if we pray repeatedly for the same need, we are showing a lack of faith.
I believe, however, that the Bible teaches just the opposite—that we are to pray persistently until we receive an answer. Luke notes that the reason Jesus used the parable of the widow was to teach them to “always pray and not lose heart” (Luke 18:1). Jesus even concluded the parable by asking “Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?” He connected her persistence to faith.
There are other examples of persistence in the Bible: Jacob wrestled with the angel and would not give up until he received a blessing (Gen. 32:24-29), Elijah prayed seven times until the rain came (1 Kings 18:41-46), Daniel prayed and fasted for three weeks to understand a vision before he received an answer (Dan. 10:1-14), the blind beggar continued to cry out to Jesus until He turned to answer his prayers (Luke 18:35-43), Paul prayed three times for God to remove the thorn in his flesh—he only stopped when God said “no” (2 Cor. 12:7-9), and even Jesus prayed three times in the garden of Gethsemane as He surrendered His will to the Father’s (Matt. 26:37-46).
The point is that we should continually pray until we receive the answer because we don’t know what God is doing behind the scenes. One reason we don’t receive an immediate answer is that God may need to prepare the soil (Matt. 13:18-23) beforehand. He may need to work on the hearts of the other people involved, work out all the necessary details, or wait until the time is right for the miracle to happen. He may even need to work in your heart before you are ready to receive the answer.
This is where faith comes in with our persistent prayers. As we fervently and persistently pray, we are doing so with the confidence that God is working. We may not see what He is doing, but we know, by faith, that He is working and setting the stage to do a miracle, and we will continue to pray until everything is ready for the answer to come.
This brings us to another thing we need to understand about prayer: prayer is the tool with which we can work with God to fulfill His purpose on earth. Even though God is sovereign, all-powerful, and can do whatever He wants whenever He wants, He has chosen to work with man to accomplish His will (see Ezek. 22:30-31).
This is perfectly illustrated by Elijah in 1 Kings 18. In verse one, we read that God told Elijah that, after a three-year drought, He was going to make it rain. Following his encounter with the prophets of Baal on Mt. Carmel, Elijah then began to pray for rain (41-46). Elijah bent down on the ground and put his head between his knees to pray. Some commentators say that this is the position women took when they were giving birth. In other words, Elijah was fervently (passionately) praying (James 5:17) until God birthed the miracle through him. God could have just sent the rain on his own, but He chose to work through Elijah’s prayers to bring the miracle to pass.
In summary, prayer is not begging God or trying to convince Him to meet a need. Instead, it is joining our will to God’s will and persistently praying until God begins to “birth” the miracle in us. Then, through our fervent and continuous prayers, God works behind the scenes preparing everyone and every detail until the time is right for the miracle to take place. Don’t give up! Don’t stop praying because we know that “The prayer of a righteous man has great power to prevail” (James 5:16b). Pray until the job is completed!
Wells, David. 2014. “Prayer: Rebelling Against the Status Quo.” In Perspectives on the World Christian Movement, 4th ed. edited by Ralph D. Winter and Steven C. Hawthorne, 159-162. Pasadena, CA: William Carey Library.